Guest Post: Joy in a Photo Essay

 

Guest Blogger:  Photographer Janie Haynes

As I’ve grown older, I find my greatest joy comes from the simple things.   Being out on a trail with my dogs, especially on a sunny, brisk morning with winter coming to a close and the first colors of spring just peeking through the deadness, is one of my greatest joys.

 

For more of Janie’s photography, please visit  j.haynes photography.

Mark Twain Travel Quotes

Mark Twain (Samuel Clemmons, born in 1839)  could be considered the first American travel writer.  His first best seller, Innocents Abroad, published in 1869, chronicles his trip through Europe and the Holy Land.    One of his most popular travel quotes comes from that book.

 

Photo by Kenneth Rougeau

                           Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on     these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime.
- Innocents Abroad

 To really appreciate his humor, insight and talents, a closer look at other travel related quotes is necessary.

 

                        I have found out there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.   -Tom Sawyer Abroad

 

                      …nothing so liberalizes a man and expands the kindly instincts that nature put in him as travel and contact with many kinds of people.  Letter to San Fransisco Alta California, 1867

 

                     Bermuda is the right country for a jaded man to “loaf” in. There are no harassments; the deep peace and quiet of the country sink into one’s body and bones and give his conscience a rest and chloroform the legion of invisible small devils that are always trying to whitewash his hair.    Some Rambling Notes of an Idle Excursion

 

                    I  wrote my last travel-book in hell; but I let on, the best I could, that it was an excursion through heaven. Some day I will read it, & if its lying cheerfulness fools me, then I shall believe it fooled the reader. How I did loath that journey around the world!–except the sea-part & India.
- Letter to William Dean Howells, in regards to FOLLOWING THE EQUATOR  April 2, 1899

 

                   Foreigners cannot enjoy our food, I suppose, any more than we can enjoy theirs. It is not strange; for tastes are made, not born. I might glorify my bill of fare until I was tired; but after all, the Scotchman would shake his head, and say, “Where’s your haggis?” and the Fijan would sigh and say, “Where’s your missionary?”
- A Tramp Abroad

 

                   A nation is only an individual multiplied.    – “The Turning-Point of My Life”
The Germans are exceedingly fond of Rhine wines; they are put up in tall, slender bottles, and are considered a pleasant beverage. One tells them from vinegar by the label.  – A Tramp Abroad

 

                   It is hard to make railroading pleasant in any country. It is too tedious. Stage-coaching is infinitely more delightful.  – The Innocents Abroad

 

                    …a man who keeps company with glaciers comes to feel tolerably insignificiant by and by. The Alps and the glaciers together are able to take every bit of conceit out of a man and reduce his self-importance to zero if he will only remain within the influence of their sublime presence long enough to give it a fair and reasonable chance to do its work.
- A Tramp Abroad

 

                    The English, the arrogant nation. The Americans the material nation, the Germans the patient nation, the Russians the unclassifiable nation, the French the volatile nation, the Scotch the thrifty nation, the Italians the hot-blooded kind-hearted nation, the Irish the nation of chaste women.
- Mark Twain’s Notebook

 

                  A southerner talks music.  – Life on the Mississippi
The time to begin writing an article is when you have finished it to your satisfaction. By that time you begin to clearly and logically perceive what it is that you really want to say. - Mark Twain’s Notebook, 1902-1903

 

                     There is no unhappiness like the misery of sighting land (and work) again after a cheerful, careless voyage.
- Letter to Will Bowen (prior to sailing on Quaker City)

 

                     The gentle reader will never, never know what a consummate ass he can become until he goes abroad.   - Innocents Abroad

 

What is your favorite Mark Twain quote?

Guest Blog – Pet Travel

Neeley Raffini is my guest blogger this week.

Spring is just around the corner and you know what that means – time to plan a vacation or getaway weekend! For those of us with pets, this can be a difficult time. Should we take our four-legged friend with us on our travels or leave them in a familiar environment? Luckily, there are so many options available – here are some of my favorites:

Photo by asleeponasunbeam

If you are looking for a unique hotel experience, one of your best options is one of the very stylish and hip Kimpton Hotels.  After reading about their very unique pet-friendly properties, I thought, “Where have you been all of my life?” Not only are they located in cities across the country, but also offer dog walking services, pet beds, toys, treats and have a “Director of Pet Relations” at each hotel. How fun! For more information on all of their pet-friendly activities, check here.

If you are looking to treat your dog (or cat, etc.) to a luxury vacation, check out the Best Friends Pet Care pet resort at Walt Disney World in Orlando, FL. This place looks awesome! I recognize that my dog is totally pampered and so this place looks perfect for him. He doesn’t love being around other dogs that much (he’s 12) so one of the VIP suites would be ideal. I wouldn’t mind staying in one of those! If you are traveling to Orlando, FL, Best Friends Pet Care looks like a great option to keep your dog busy during the day while you are having fun at the parks!

There are many options for transporting your dog to your destination. My advice is to plan way in advance! If you are going to be traveling in a car, make sure that you restrain your dog. My dog and I were in a rear-end collision a while ago (actually the person hit us and then took off!) and luckily he was not hurt since he was properly restrained.  I’m sure that he hates it, but it is to protect the both of us.  FetchDog has a fantastic range of car seats and seatbelts.  Buy one and have peace of mind.

It can be extremely nerve-wracking to travel with your dog by air, since they almost always have to travel as cargo.  Why not try PetAirways?  PetAirways is a pet-only airline, where pets travel in the main cabin, not below as cargo.  Check out the cities that they fly to, as it may fit into your travel plans. However, they have recently experienced some financial trouble and may be reducing their routes.

This was just a sampling of some of the choices available to you when deciding to travel with your pet. To help you, I will post a list of additional resources on my blog that I use when planning pet travel.

 

Happy Travels!

Neely Raffellini

Round The World Trip

photo by Dorisaurus

One of my travel blogger friends, Kim, and her husband, are less than four months (or as she says 16 Mondays) away from the beginning of their year long Round The World Trip.    They are going to have an amazing adventure and I’m so happy and proud of them that I am almost busting.

But it makes me wonder, why don’t I want to do something like that?  There are so many blogs about people making the commitment, saving their money, selling their houses, deposing of their belongings, quitting their jobs and embarking on a wonderful adventure.

What makes me different from them?

I love to travel.  I love to meet people, experience cultures, and break out of the every day routine of life.

Why don’t I want to take a year and travel the world?

Is it because I am single and, as much as I like doing things alone, the thought of being alone for a year is too much.  Sure that could be it.

Is it because of the medical issues that come up this year.  Yeah, that could be it.

Is it because I have three cats and a dog?  I would miss them.

Then it dawned on me.   I have no desire to take a round the world trip and be gone for a year, because my life has been one long round the world trip.

Born in Texas, I lived in Alaska, Turkey, Greece and Maryland by the time I was twelve.

As an adult working in the film industry I lived all over the world.  I may have been based in Los Angeles for sixteen years (the longest I have lived anywhere) but half of that time I was elsewhere filming.  I’ve lived for an extended time in Las Vegas, San Fransisco,  Morocco, Oahu, Portland (Oregon), Kauai, New Jersey and shorter excersions in South Carolina, Virginia, Washington and all over Northern and Southern California.

 

My life is a round the world trip.

 

I like the ring of that.

Currently,  I am finishing up nine months in Boston.  I am anxious to go home to Nashville, to live a life of routine, taking the dog for a walk, planting flowers, movies with friends.

And in a couple of months the travel itch will begin again.

 

You can check out Kim’s blog  So Many Places,  and keep an eye out for a upcoming  guest blog posting from her right here on Find Your Joy.

The Balance of Life

 

 

I struggle with this conundrum of balance, the perfect proportion of work and life.

The writer and Trappist monk, Thomas Merton, said  “ Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony.

Working in the film industry is very intense.  It often requires me to relocate for months at a time, which is a dream come true to a traveler but the price that I pay is immeasurable.

Photo by Chris Eades

For the last nine months I have lived in a brownstone in the Back Bay/South End area of Boston.   I’ve eaten oysters, gone to Red Sox games, taken a harbor cruise, eaten authentic Italian food in the North End and become a Patriots fan.   I’ve done touristy stuff like ride on a Duck Tour and lived like a local, shopping at my corner market and exploring this wonderful walking city.

And for those stolen moments of exploration I have worked non-stop, often seven days a week, fielding phone calls while driving through the Vermont countryside or sitting at my desk for fourteen stressful hours a day.  Dealing with the egos and the pressures of the responsibilities of millions of dollars weigh heavily on all those involved and creates a taxing environment.

On the home front, my 85 year old neighbor who had become one of my best friends in Nashville, lost her battle with cancer.  The summer heat burned my lawn, my car battery died, my house was dark on Halloween and my Christmas decorations collected another layer of dust.   My roommate taught my dog new tricks, my cousin Abbey started her freshman year at Vanderbilt and another neighbor’s puppy grew into a dog.

And I lost all my creative energy.  When I first got to Boston I vowed to keep writing, even it was just on weekends but I was soon swallowed up by the work pace and fell exhausted into bed at the end of each night.  I was so tired I forgot people’s names or events that happened the week before…my imaginative well was so dry there were dust devils whirling around in there.

 

I was out of balance.

 

Now that my film is in the final, relaxed wrap phase of production, I am left to emerge from my work cocoon, reconnect with friends, resurrect my blog, and  re-examine my life and priorities.

To quote Oprah, “what I know for sure”, is that when I am writing and when I have written I am profoundly happy.

I also know that I need to work to maintain my health insurance, fund my travels, and cushion my bank account for my time off.

 

How do I make this work?

Photo by Jake Mazur

 

Then I read “Work/Life Balance is a Myth; Here Is What You Can Do About It” by Craig Chapplow on the website Fast Company.

“And control, in my view, is what we’re really trying to get to with all the chatter about balance. We need better ways to manage work-life boundaries, understanding that we are subject to phases, often dictated by events out of our control, in which our work lives and personal lives ebb and flow in their demands. The more we assume actual leadership of our own lives, instead of waiting for someone else to do it for us, the better prepared we are to deal with this unending juggle.”

First I must release the notion that everything can be equal because it cannot.  I choose to take this movie and I benefited in many ways, paying off my credit cards, earning enough union hours to have medical insurance for a year, donating the full amount to my Roth IRA, making friends, living in a new city, visiting five states, experiencing a hurricane and a freak snow storm.

What I learned is that, for me, nine months is too long.  After working in this industry for almost 20 years, I want to be closer to home and I don’t want to spend more than three months away from home.   I need to store up blog posts, knowing that when I am working I am not as creative and I will have to carve out time to stay connected to the world that is important to me.

And that is how I will stay balanced, by staying in control, and taking responsibility for my life.
How will you stay balanced?

Quotes from The World Domination Summit (2011)

photo by inkstainedwriter

The World Domination Summit is over but my notes help me relive the feeling of unity and enthusiasm.

Here are a few of my favorite quotes:

 

 

“The Universe Wants You to Succeed “– Danielle Laporte

 

“Live  A Life of Boldness” – Leo Babuata

 

“Own Your Choices” – Leo Babuata

 

“Expand your Capacity to be Brave”- Danielle Laporte

 

“Making comparisons is a colossal waste of time “– Jodi Ettenberg

 

“We don’t age because time passes” – Jodi Ettenberg

 

“Take bold consistent action in the face of uncertainty” Unknown

 

“If its worth doing/creating, you won’t have all the information.” Unknown

 

 

(If I quoted you and you are the “unknown” please let me know so I can give you the credit you deserve.)

 

Danielle Laporte can be found at www.whitehottruth.com and @DanielleLaPorte on Twitter.

Leo Babauta’s website is www.ZenHabits.com and @ZenHabits on Twitter.

Jodi Ettenberg is www.LegalNomads.com and @LegalNomads on Twitter.

 

Absence of Mind but Not of Heart

 

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You may have notice a lack of posts over the last few weeks.  Not to offer a liturgy of excuses but a series of events have kept me from this blog, some of it good, some not so good.

While I was at TBEX in Vancouver I was offered a job in Boston on a Universal movie.    As many of you know, I haven’t worked on a film for a year, while I settled into my new house and life in Nashville.    Some job offers had made their way to be prior to this one but never felt right.  This one was different and even though the start date was sooner than I would have liked, I accepted.   Suddenly I had to wrap up my life in Nashville and prepare for eight months on location.

During the week and a half I had back home, I was diagnosed with diabetes.  While not the best news, it explained the extreme fatigue/exhaustion I had been feeling for the last year.

On the same day I lost the hard drive on my computer.  All posts I had pre-written are gone thru no fault but my own.   When you hear the advice to BACK UP YOUR COMPUTER, take it to heart.

I’ve been in Boston for a week now and work had been very busy.  As the travel coordinator I’m responsible for bringing everybody into town, putting them into their hotels and making sure they have transportation.

I finally feel that I have my feet underneath me again.  I am adjusting my lifestyle to accommodate the diabetes and between that and my medicine I am already feeling better.

Expect more than a few blogs on Boston and the northeast part of the United States.  I have never been in this part of the country before and I’m excited to explore and experience many different seasons.

 

P.S.  Due to the longevity of the project I am working on, I will have to postpone the first Find Your Joy trip to Belize until next summer.  Check back for more information.

ABCs of The World Domination Summit

The first ever World Domination Summit (WDS) was held in Portland, Oregon June 3-5, 2011.  This unconventional summit (not a convention) was a gathering of travelers, entrepreneurs and independent thinkers and while we were having a group experience every minute of it was personal.

photo by Armosa Studios

A is for Authenticity

Authenticity is the catch phrase of the year.  From travel experiences to writing and social media everybody is looking for an experience that speaks to them.

Every voice is unique and WDS celebrated that individuality.  To be true to yourself and your readers (or clients) you should embrace the aspects that make you different.

Jonathan Fields, the closing speaker at the summit, says in his blog post, When Authenticity Ain’t Enough that “Authenticity must align with mastery and need” for a business to be successful.  I agree with him but must say that authenticity is the base from which to build your blog, your business and your life.

If you speak from your heart somebody will listen.  It might just be your mom but you have to start somewhere.

 

A is also for Awesome

Neil Parshica spoke about the The 3 A’s of Awesome and reminded me that every day something amazing happens and  to take notice and celebrate those small moments.    Oprah has her gratitude diary, Neil has his blog, 1000 Awesome Things.

Right now I think it’s awesome that I have wifi on the Amtrak train between Seattle and Vancouver, BC.  Even, as Neil said, maybe the most awesome thing that happened to you that day is that the day ended, well, that is pretty awesome.

Embrace awesome and it will change your life.

 

B is for Balance

This was the most personal insight that I had at WDS.  I have been struggling with the identity of my website, the recommendations of extremes from my peers.  If I want to be a travel writer, my site should be professional grade pieces was the advice I heard most often.  Yet I felt this made my blog impersonal and my soul was not fullfilled.   I realized that I need to balance what I write.

 

Pamela Slim, who was the opening speaker for the summit, also had a breakout session on Creating a Content Map.  She identified the four needs of her readers and balances her tweets and blog posts to address those four areas.  This was an Aha Moment (again, a shout out to Oprah) for me.  It was as if Pam gave me permission to “mix it up”.  Ifyou would like to check out Pam’s two breakout sessions, the other one was Navigating the Entrepreneur Journey, read her secret WDS page.

Personal balance is also an issue for me.  Twenty years of working in the all encompassing film/TV industry has purged balance from my life.  Daily I struggle with the best way to accomplish what I need to do, what I want to do and what I actually get done.

ZenHabits.com author, Leo Babauta, spoke to my heart with his message of simplicity and taking small steps to achieve change.

 

C is for Creativity

Dreams are meant to be big and limitless.  That is the theme behind Andrea Shear and Jen Lemon’s Mondo Beyondo website, class and their Sunday presentation at WDS.  When you open yourself up to the possibilities you actually give them permission to enter.

Combine that with the acceptance, love and encouragement from every member of the Freshman Class of WDS and you have a canvas for creativity.   Chris Gillebeau, the mastermind behind WDS, writes about naysayers in his book, The Art Of Non-Conformity.  He created, in Portland, the antithesis of cynics.  A place of celebration, inflection, and a rare gathering of people who only want success for you.

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As the week after WDS wraps up I find that I am still reflecting on what I learned, the amazing (awesome) people that I met and the unique energy that transpired there.  How do you describe walking into a group of 500 people and connecting with all of them?

I urge you to consider going next year.   Here is the early early notification, even though tickets won’t go on sale until the fall.  The Freshman Class of WDS got the opportunity to sign up for next year, even though a firm date hasn’t been picked, 285 of us committed.  Last year it sold out five months in advance.

I also suggest you read Chris Gillebeau’s book, The Art of Non-Conformity.

Spread the word.  We are about to dominate the world, starting with you.

Francine’s List


Photos of Old San Juan

One of the entrances to Old San Juan.

 

Taken from the fort.

 

Inside the fort.

 

Duh, a cannon at the fort.

Cathedral of San Juan Baptista, built in 1521

Craftfest, July 7 & 8, 2010, NYC

 

Seminars I attended:

 

For The Thrill of It: From Book to Screen

by Lorenzo Caraterra

Eight Ways to Writing – and Finishing – Your Novel

by William Bernhardt

Who’s Telling the Story and What They Are Saying

by Steve Berry

And The Winner for Best Supporting Actor is…

by Andrew Gross

Keeping a Book Diary: Simple Secrets That Can Keep Your
Book on Track

by David Hewson

Crafting Big Scenes for the Blockbuster Novel

by Al Zuckerman

Creating Authentic, Tough, Smart Female Protagonist

by Alex Kava, JT Ellison (a writer from Nashville) and Erica
Spindler

From Soups to Nuts: Crafting a Thriller From First Notion
to Completion

by Michael Palmer

What Makes a Hero?

by Donald Maass

 

One of the most inspiring things about conferences like
Thrillerfest/Craftfest is meeting fellow aspiring writers and/or those that are
book lovers like myself.  Writing
is a lonely business and its nice to sit in a meeting room surrounded by people
who suffer through the agony of writing like I do.  Yes. 
Agony.  That seems to be one
of the universal “themes” that I took away from both the workshop leaders and
fellow attendees ; as much as we love writing, it is painful.  The other repeating issue is self
doubt.  It appears that all
writers, even those that are successful, are full of the insecurity, an
insecurity that our interior editor welcomes and builds upon.  Fellowship with other writers helps
defray that very loud interior editor.

 

So here is where’d I like to give a shout out to my new
friends from Thrillerfest:

Gaby O. Lapus, a lawyer and book reviewer.  Check out her blog at:  www.startingfreshnyc.com

Beth T. Irwin, former military lawyer and writer.  Her blog is:  www.btibooks.blogspot.com

Jean Osborn, writer

Steven D. Covey, writer and realtor.  His blog is:

RamblingsOnTheFutureOfHumanity.blogspot.com

I'd like to leave you with an antidote that was told during one of my seminars regarding Harper Lee and the writing of To Kill A Mockingbird (which just celebrated its 50th anniversary, check out Gaby's blog about it here: starting fresh ny).  Apparently Harper Lee was about halfway through writing To Kill A Mockingbird when she became convinced it sucked.  She opened her window and threw the manuscript out into the snow.  Soon afterward she had a conversation with her agent.  Nobody knows what was said but when she hung up, she went outside, gathered the sheets of paper and went on to finish one of the best American novels ever written.

Seems I am in good company…..

 

Condo for rent in the Valley

Now that I have moved to Nashville, my 823 sq foot condo is for rent.  $1550/month.  First, last and security deposit will move you in.  Cat okay with deposit.  Fridge included.  Laundry on site.  Two tandem parking spots.  Located near both the 101 and 405 interstates.  Secure entry and garage.
Lr2 (Small)


New Carpets.  Earth toned walls.

Mstr2 (Small)

Master bedroom with custom organized closet.(king size bed can stay if you like)

Bdrm (Small)

Second bedroom can be used as an office.  (desk can stay if you'd like)

Bth (Small)

One full bath, one 3/4 bath. 

Kit (Small)
Renovated kitchen will include fridge.

Frnt (Small)

Located on a quiet residential street, the nine unit building is all owner occupied.  Condo avail is 2nd floor in the back corner with views of the mountains and trees.  Very peaceful.

Its a Wrap–Love Don’t Let Me Down

The movie that brought me to Nashville, to my new home, is finally over.  "Love Don't Let Me Down" is officially over and I can't help but wonder if it will be my last movie.  Will there be others?  What will I do next?  Where is my life heading?  I'm taking a deep breath and seeing what will happen next, with my eyes wide open.

Memphis, Hometown Tourist

I have been wanting to visit Memphis as a tourist for several years.  So much about it has changed in the fifteen years since I left for Los Angeles.   All my visits home, however, were full of family, friends, University of Memphis basketball and dodging tornadoes.

As you know from my previous post, Meredith Meade and I drove down to Memphis from Nashville a couple of weekends ago to play tourist.  It was her first visit and the first day at Graceland she was enamored.  Would it last?

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(photo by Meredith Meade)

We checked into the Holiday Inn Select Downtown, across from The Peabody.  It seemed only fitting to stay in the hotel chain that was not only founded in Memphis but created the hotel chain phenomena.

Saturday morning we walked down Main Street to the oldest Cafe in Memphis, The Arcade.  The cold weather wasn’t stopping people from coming out to eat, so we had a small wait before being seated.  When I lived in Memphis, we never ventured down this far Main, so I really enjoyed seeing this part of town and seeing the revitalization going on.  The food was…well, ok…except for the sweet potato pancakes.  They alone were worth the wait!

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Next up (and less than a block away) was The Civil Rights Museum, located at the site of the Lorraine Motel, where Martin Luther King was assassinated.

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The museum is jam packed full of information about the civil rights movement in the United States, dating back to the Underground Railroad.  While its informative and moving, I felt that the layout didn’t maximize the materials and could see that the children going through the museum soon lost interest.

After a quick tea and snack at The Peabody Hotel to rejuvenate ourselves, we headed over to the Rock and Soul Museum for an education in the progression of music history in Memphis.  Tucked next to the Fed Ex Forum, at the foot of Beale Street, this museum was light, fun and enjoyable.

Heading back to our hotel we were sidetracked by the Wet Willies‘ drinks and stopped to rest our weary feet.

Dinner on Saturday night was two-fold.  Craving BBQ Nachos we put our name in at the world famous Rendezvous Restaurant and were told it was an almost two hour wait (it was Saturday night after all).  We promptly walked over to Automatic Slims Tonga Club for a cocktail and appetizers.  We ordered calamari and since it was happy hour ($5 martinis) I ordered a Flirtini.  A flirtini is a mix of vodka, champagne and chambord and is wonderful. I recommend it!

We got back to the Rendezvous just as they were calling our name, promptly sat down and ate the most delicious BBQ Nachos I have ever tasted (I am still dreaming about them).  Now keep in mind, I am not a Rendezvous Fan and when visitors come to Memphis and want to eat there I usually tell them to steer clear…well, no longer.  It was worth the wait!  YUMMY!

My dad has made his way from Olive Branch, MS by this time and we headed down to Beale Street for some good Memphis Blues.  We started the night at The Rum Boogie Cafe, secured a table by the door, and sat back to enjoy!  A few hours later we made our way down to BB King’s Restaurant and Blues Club , where we finished our evening.  My dad could have stayed out all night but Meredith and I were exhausted after our busy day.

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Sunday morning found us at Sun Studio, where Rock and Roll was born.   Of all the museums we visited, Meredith and I liked this one the best, due in part of our wonderful tour guide.  I can’t believe that in all the years I lived in Memphis I never visited this museum.  I even worked less than two blocks away from it while I was in college.  Make sure you don’t miss it.

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(The actual vocal mike used by Elvis and many, many others.)

After meeting up with my best friend Valerie for lunch at Memphis Pizza Cafe, Meredith and I hit the road back to Nashville, exhausted but feeling like we got to know Memphis a little bit better!

 

 

Revisiting Graceland, 2010

Being a tourist in your own hometown can have a lot of
rewards.  In my case, I haven’t
lived in my old hometown of Memphis (of course now Nashville is my hometown) in
almost 16 years and it has changed quite a bit.   I haven’t visited Graceland since 1993, when tour
guides led you through the house, the cars were still parked out back in the
carport and the only thing across the street was the ticket office.  A lot has changed since then…in fact
the only thing that has remained the same is that the Graceland’s upper floors
are still off limits!

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Meredith with the King of Rock and Roll

 

The first thing I notice is that the city has given up on
street signs for Elvis Presley Blvd.  I imagine with budget cuts they figured that it was just too
plain expensive to keep replacing the signs stolen by chubby women from
Norway.  Not that I blame them, the city that is…..

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The front parlor of Graceland

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The Pool Room

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Graceland has expanded from the simple house tour, which is
a wonderful mix of nostalgia, interior design disaster and an awe inspiring
glitter of gold records  to a conglomerate of additional mini exhibits/museums
which include Elvis’ cars (yes, that is the Gracelandpinkcaddy2010 Pink Cadillac that he gave to Gladys, his mother),
Elvis’ Hollywood Career, Elvis’ concert of 1968 (which is really just a small display in yet
another gift shop), Elvis’ wardrobe (I found this exhibit was one of my favorites), and
finally a tour of Elvis’ plane, the Lisa Marie.   I found them all to be well done, well maintained and informative. 

 

The sad part about the whole experience is that the gift
shops outnumbered the exhibits.  Just when I thought they couldn’t possibly think of another
thing to put Elvis’ face I’d go into another shop and find an entirely new
display of items.  I guess the
theory is that if you make it, people will buy it.

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The thing that I took from Graceland was the Elvis was one
of kind; from his clothes, his hair, his generous nature, his raw talent and
his incredible music.  He was proud
to be a Memphian and I am proud to call him a hometown boy!

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Jen signing the wall outside Elvis Graceland!

Palin Paris’ Write up in the LA Times

Remember that fantastic vacation that I had at the fancy French Chateau, a birthday celebration for Palin Paris' and his beautiful wife Carmen Thomas?  

Well Palin had a wonderful write-up in the LA Times over the weekend.  You will recognize his children, Sabine and Georges with a few years added and see a sample of his murals and art work.

Paulin Paris LA Times Article

Why I Am Moving To Nashville?

It seems to be the question on everybody's mind. My friends, my co-workers, my new neighbors.

There are the obvious reasons: I am closer to family  (especially my parents), an affordable house, and a better quality of life.

These reasons hint at the true nature of such a move.  The bottom line is that I am no longer happy in Los Angeles and am very lonely there.  My dear California friends, please don't take offense to this, it does not reflect on the depth of our friendships or how important you are to me.  My soul is lonely and craving something that I couldn't find in sunny Southern California.  I am not talking of such things tangible but those things that affect my core being.  A sense of community, a connection to the lives around me, to the world that surrrounds me, space to embrace the creative energy that bounces around inside. I have been craving a change for a long time but have to admit that I was quite comfortable where I was, with work, my condo, my life in general.  But as a very wise friend once said to me, "do you want to be comfortable or happy?"

Sometimes happiness is found by stepping out of your comfort zone, embracing the uneasiness of uncertainty, reaching out and touching something new, opening yourself back up to the possibilities. 

Nashville was never on my radar but when Screen Gems decided to film "Love Don't Let Me Down" here I decided it was a place I really wanted to explore.  I knew almost immediately that I needed to move here.  It holds for me the familiarity of my hometown of Memphis, the loving nature of the Southern people, a strong entertainment community and an openness of acceptance that accommodates creative types and a sprinkling of family and friends already living here.  Once the decision was made, everything else fell into place very quickly and easily which confirms that it is the right choice, maybe even the only choice I had.

So a new chapter in my life begins. 

Jen’s Nashville House

810 Stockell St, Nashville, TN (03)
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810 Stockell St, Nashville, TN (54)
810 Stockell St, Nashville, TN (60)

Location is not Vacation

Trona Pinnacles

Four hours from Los Angeles, the barren landscape of tall prehistoric volcanoes, is punctured by the Trona Pinnacles.  Located between Ridgecrest, CA and Trona, the small brown National Park sign indicates a dirt road leading towards the rocks.  Formed underwater along a fault line that is connected to Searles Dry Lake Bed, these calcium carbonate juts of rock dominate the flat surface. 

The film crew perches atop one of the pinnacles to capture the actors and the amazing vista beyond them. 

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Trona Salt Flats

The Mojave Desert is only fifty miles away but the heat has found the crew.  The sun bakes us, is soaked up by the salt infested ground and bounces up.  We are surrounded by it.  The crew moves slowly through the day and Production Assistants walk around offering water and shade.  Their job is to watch everybody to make sure no heat exhaustion or heat stroke hits us.

This parched landscape is perfect for the setting of "Outpost 10".  A small house set on war radiated land, the owners scratching a living and waiting for the soil to return to usefulness after years of war between humans and vampires.  This is the beginning and ending of our film. 

Every day it reaches 120 degrees.

120 degrees

Fishhead Rocks

Our final location in the Trona/Ridgecrest area. 

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Also known as Poison Canyon for a stream that contains naturally occurring lethal amounts of arsenic and other chemicals.  The canyon was originally used as the route the mule teams used from the Borax Plant in Trona to San Pedro, California.

Tucked in a back corner, we wedged a reduced film crew in to film our actors walking along a narrow path, surrounded by wrinkled walls.  Filmed at dusk, in the fading light, it was easy to feel transformed to a different time and place here.

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(That is me, 2nd from the left)

Ridgecrest

The closest major town to our location, Ridgecrest's (formerly known as Crumville) existence is purely to sustain the China Lake Navel Weapons Base.  The base dominates the surrounding terrain, rolling along for acres.  Driving along the highway towards our location, I catch glimpses of imagined steel bunker doors embedded in the distant mountainsides and wonder what arsenal is held there.

Our hotel, The Carriage Inn, is charming.  The majority of the crew stayed here and gather by the pool at night to cool off and share a beer or two.  The rooms are small but the air conditioners work and that
is the most important thing this close to the desert.  The rest of the crew stayed in the new Springhill by Marriott .  They didn't have ambiance we did but they did have big flat screen tvs!

Priest

Things have been quiet on the blog because my current film, PRIEST, is taking up all my time. 

Check out this article to discover what I have been up to…..

http://www.vvdailypress.com/news/valley-14829-lucerne-filmed.html

I promise more soon.

Focus on the Novel

I have started my next writing class and it is “Focus on the Novel”.

In next fourteen weeks I will learn the secrets to novel writing, complete an outline and write my first three chapters.

Many of you joined this blog when it was purely a travel writing blog.  It has slowly morphed into something more.  I hope to chronicle my journey with writing a novel, the hardships and the triumphs.

I hope that you will join me!

P.S.  I will still write about trips, travel and misc. life adventures!

First Ladies of Africa

Fifteen First Ladies of Africa came to visit out set last week.  

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They have converged here in Los Angeles to discuss the health issues and child
welfare that effects all their nations.

Their visit to our set was quiet, respectful and cordial until Danny Glove and Chris Rock came to meet them.  The women were dignified in their excitement but couldn't help pulling out their cell phones to snap photos.

It was awe inspiring to be among this group of ladies who have bonded together to address the issues that threaten all of them.  We should look to them to inspire us with our own world views. 

We are all one.

Belize Bound

Tonight I leave for Belize.  I am excited and nervous and a little anxious.  I can't wait to get on the plane.  To begin the next adventure.  I also don't want to leave.  I don't want to leave my cats in the hands of a stranger.  I want to wake up in my own bed.  I want the comfort and familiarity of home at the same time I crave the excitement of new places and experiences. 

I feel this way every time I leave home.  Travel opens up in me the desires to see the world and meet its people.  Travel also solidifies my love for my home.  Certainly my house, my life, my friends but also my country. 

Here is a preview of my trip to Belize:

Dec. 30-Jan 2  Seaside Cabanas, Caye Cauker
Jan 2-Jan 7  Jungle Dome, Belmopan
Jan 7-10  Jaguar Reef Resort and Spa, Marina

I will be posting soon.  Happy New Year.

P.S.  Yes, I know I still owe you blogs about New York City!

New York, The Authentic Experience

(part two:  the people)

New Yorkers have a repetition for being loud, bossy, short-tempered and all around unpleasant.  I found nothing could be further from the truth during my recent visit. Whether it was asking a stranger for directions or striking up a conversation on a bus or subway platform, New Yorkers were friendly and went out of the way to help.

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Arriving at the Newark Airport, I had to call my car service for pickup.  I had unfortunately left my cell phone in Los Angeles so I was desperately trying to call from a payphone.  Remember the day when you plopped your money in and dialed the number.   Its much more complicated now with credit card swipes and dialing multiple numbers just to get the dial tone for your phone number.  After many failed attempts I was becoming dismayed.  Nearby I had noticed a slim older man, reading a newspaper– a sign for an incoming passenger propped up on two luggage carts.  

“Having trouble making a call”, he asked.

“Yes.  Can I give you a dollar to let me use your cell phone?  I just need to call the car service.”

“No dollar necessary.” He said, having already pulled his cell phone out before I asked.
“What’s the number?” 

He connected me swiftly to the car company.    Since I didn’t have a cell phone number to give them I gave them a brief description of myself.  Blonde lady in a green jacket.  “Pleasantly plumb”, I add.

“Thank you so much.” I said to my guardian angel. 

“I just want to tell you, “ he responded.  “I am a happily married man but I think that you are a delightful young woman.  And you smell good.”   He was not trying to pick me up. He was just paying me a compliment, plain and simple.

What a wonderful way to start a vacation!

The Cabbie
No trip to New York could be called authentic unless there is at least one true New York moment.

Catching a cab across town to join my dad and Stan at an off Broadway play, I settled in for my ride.  My cab driver, in a hurray (as they all are), cuts off a metro bus at a light.  I notice the bus driver leaning out his window and throwing something at the cab, bouncing it off the front passenger’s window.   My cabbie heard the noise but didn’t realize it was from the bus. 

As he begin to pull away I say, “You know that bus driver totally threw something at the cab, right?”

“WHAT?” he asks incredulously

“Yeah.  I saw him.”

“That bus driver?” pointing behind us.

“Yeah.”

With that, he throws the taxi in park, tossed open the door and charges back toward the bus, yelling at the top of his lungs.  I turn, looking through the cab’s rear window and see the bus driver leaning halfway out his window, gesturing wildly.  The cabbie is directly below him, arms spread and waving.  Each man trying to make his point.

I can’t help but giggle.

Battery Park

Vendors line the walkways of this famous park, selling nuts, framed NY photos, hats, scarves, and gloves.  

I set my sights on a four photo collection of NY in the snow and buy it for $15, framed.
The woman who sells it to me is dark skinned, short and has a sweetness about her that flows like a river. 

“Can I take your picture?” I ask.

“Its okay.” She said, patting her scarf and hat, looking down at the ground.

“You are beautiful.” I tell her, meaning inside and out.  I snap the photo.

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“Where are you from?”  She asks us.  “I am from Tibet.”  She tells me, glancing over at a tall man behind their stall.  I assume it is her husband.  “We have been here three years.”

We chat for a few moments before moving on.   She is one more layer of what makes New York such a fascinating place.

New York, The Authentic Experience

(Part one—the Apartment)

On my recent trip to New York City, I choose to steer clear of the crowded Times Square area of town (where my dad’s hotel was located) and instead rented a studio apt from a friend, sight unseen, on the East side.   Did I mention that it’s a five-story walk-up?  That means no elevator.   

I have to admit that I had a lot of pre-conceived notions of what this apt would be like…visions of loud neighbors, loud traffic, banging doors, honking, shouting,all the things I have seen on TV.  

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 Imagine my surprise, after laboriously dragging my suitcases (yes, plural) up the five flights of stairs, when I found a colorfully painted sanctuary.   Each room is painted a different color, rich pink in the studio portion, pale yellow for the kitchen, the corner bathroom is a deep blue and the entry hall is majestic purple.   

There are not multiple locks on the door just one deadbolt and a chain that has long lost its connector piece on the door.  The loudest noise I hear is the steam heat coming out of the radiator and the only neighbors are the pigeons cooing on the windowsills. 

Porcelain Chinese men watch over me from vantage points throughout the studio.  Perched on golden corbels, they feel as if they are my guardian angles, keeping me safe.Ncaptguardianangles

The wood floors are worn but smooth and comforting and the toilet doesn’t flush unless you hold down the handle until the count of ten. 

If I lean into the kitchen window I can see the roof of the building across the way and the skyline of the buildings beyond.  They catch the light of the sun as it makes its way across the sky and from the quiet of my room it seems as if New York City is still across the country.  Yet, as soon as I circle down five flights of stairs and open the door, the city greets me with its hustle, bustle and energy.Viewfromnycapt

This is the perfect place for me to get to know New York City.  I find, as I close the door behind me at the end of my stay, I already miss the apartment.  And am counting the days until I can return.

Continental Is My New Favorite Airline

Airlines in America have been losing consumer confidence every since they started shouting bankruptcy and began charging us for mundane things like blankets and baggage. Not to mention the lack of meals.  In the old days they courted us, made us feel special, valued us.  And as if to punish us for their lack of business savvy, we now are shuttled like cattle, stacked into rows, and thrown a bag of peanuts (if we are lucky).

The last time I flew Continental it was a non-descript flight.  The time before that, many years ago, it was on an almost empty flight across the country on, what I can only hope, was the plane’s last flight before retirement.  It left a bad taste in my mouth, and I’m not just talking about the bland food offering.

This trip was different.  (With the exception of a packed tight flight, but it was the busiest travel day of the year, the Wednesday before Thanksgiving.)   Continental boasts of having the newest fleet in the in business—a rumor I cannot confirm or deny—but the plane we were on, a 757 felt new, sleek, modern. 

On demand entertainment is available in each seatback.    Movies old and new:  Spiderman, Wall-E, Bullitt, are just a few of the 19 choices.    Short Programs that include 18 choices of TV shows such as CSI, Without A Trace, Friends and Everybody Loves Raymond.   Fifty music choices and multiple games round out the menu. 

And breakfast.  Yes.  You heard me right.   More importantly, edible breakfast.  An egg and cheese Omelet in a Pita from Pita Naturals, a fresh but benign muffin and a small bowl of fruit, consisting of grapes, cantaloupe and honeydew.  On top of that they left a whole a 16 oz drink (I had cran-apple) and then came through again 30 minutes later asking if you wanted more.

I know, I know, I should wait until they get me happily and safely back home but I have to admit that I as of right now, I have a serious crush on Continental.

P.S.  They are also a partner airline with Northwest Airlines and honor my silver elite status.

Hungarian Sour Cherry Soup

The Buda Castle Museum Café beckons me with its shaded tables, tucked next to the cool stone walls of the former palace.  I stumble across the courtyard, feeling the baked heat of the midday sun beating down on my bare head and seeping upward into my shoes.   This must be what it feels like to be roasted and broiled at the same time.    Sweat beads, then drips down my forehead, stinging my eyes.   My thighs are raw, a heat rash setting up residence in places I’d rather not mention.   The heat wave that has struck Hungary, and will kill 100 people during its weeklong assault, has reaches a crescendo as I finally reach the sanctity of the restaurant’s shelter. 

I settle into my chair, thankful to be next to a tall, cool pillar.   Resisting the urge to give a full body hug to the pillar and to my waiter, heck to anything that is less than 110 degrees Fahrenheit, I order a tall glass of water.  I use all my napkins to sop up the ends of my sweat-drenched hair and look over the menu.  A heat migraine is threatening, like storm clouds on a sunny day.  Oh, that would have been nice right about then, a big ole thunderstorm.   More than slightly nauseous from the heat, I know that I must eat something soon or I am a goner. 

I can’t bear the thought of the normal Hungarian fare, galuska, a type of potato dumpling or a meat stew called Porkolt.   All too heavy for a tourist on the verge of heat stroke.  Then I see it.  My salvation, hideg  meggyleves.  Chilled Sour Cherry Soup.
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A Hungarian delicacy, rarely seen in the United States, made of poached sour cherries, sugar, cream and a touch of cinnamon, nutmeg or allspice, it is popular during the summer months when the temperatures climb and the sour cherry trees ripen.   

I had tasted chilled fruit soup only once before, strawberry soup, at a sorority convention in Ft. Lauderdale.  To try something new, like chilled fruit soup, at that point in my life, was an event in itself.  Being rewarded with the smooth texture and light strawberry flavor, helped set the stage for trying new foods as I grew older. 

Now I find myself in Hungary, looking forward to trying Sour Cherry Soup. The waiter, having forgiven my attempt to pronounce hedge meggyleves, refills my water glass and brings the Coca Cola I have ordered.  He registers the disappointment on my face when I see only two pieces of ice in my glass and he nods knowingly at me.  He comes back through the crowd of tables with an ice bucket, carefully dropping several cubes in each of his patron’s glasses.  He passes me by, saying, “I’ll be back for you”. After his rounds, he casually walks by my table, dropping off the bucket.  He smiles at me over his shoulder as he walks away and I blush, tickled that he has done this for me.

The Sour Cherry soup arrives and it is better than I imagined.  The rich, creamy texture sooths my mouth, cooling as it goes down.  It is a perfect combination of sweetness from the cream and sugar and tartness from the cherries, which I find congregating at the bottom of the bowl.  I suck one slowly off my spoon and it is so tender it melts in my mouth, oozing with brandied goodness.  Surprisingly the cherries are not pitted but my tongue makes fast work of disengaging the pit.  I eat slowly, treasuring this feeling of decadency.  Surely this was a dish favored by the monarchs of Hungary.   Refreshed by the shade and nourished by my soup, I am soon ready to finish exploring the Castle district of Budapest, open to new adventures.

Recipe for Chilled Sour Cherry Soup (courtesy of Saveur.com)

2  24-oz. jars of pitted sour cherries
   (preferably morellos), with their juice
   (Alternatively, you may use 1 3⁄4 lbs. fresh
   bing cherries, stemmed and pitted, or
   1 1⁄2 lbs. frozen bing cherries with 2 3⁄4
   cups sour or regular cherry juice.)
1⁄2 tsp. kosher salt
1 cinnamon stick
1  1⁄2"–thick slice of lemon
1  8–oz. container sour cream

1. Add jars of cherries, with their juice, to a 4-quart saucepan. Add salt, cinnamon stick, and lemon. Bring to a boil, reduce heat to medium-low, and simmer until cherries are soft, about 5 minutes.

2. In a small bowl, whisk together sour cream and 1⁄4 cup of hot cherry liquid from pan. Remove pan from heat; stir in sour cream mixture. Chill the soup.

This recipe was first published in Saveur in Issue #112

Where the Hell is Matt? (2008)

The reasons that we travel vary for every person, whether it be an escape from our everyday lives, to a need for adventure. One of the many reasons I travel is to connect with people that live in different cultures, to remind myself that for all our differences, we are all the same. This video is a perfect example of that,

Travel Writing Contest Monthly Winner

I am happy to announce that my entry, "Heart of a Mountain", has won the first monthly Travel Writing Contest at the Costa Rica Pages.    Check out the announcement, along with my bio, on their blog.

They will award the grand prize winner ($3,000 Costa Rican Vacation) on August 4, 2008.

Thanks to everybody who has visited the site and made comments and/or rated my short story.
If you haven’t done that yet, its not to late.  Click here to visit the site.
  

New Luggage

Apparently, to be considered a "true" traveler, you must own  Briggs and Riley Luggage.  Or so the salesman at Luggage 4 Less tells me.  I am still apprehensive (the luggage is NOT cheap) but there are several other customers in the store and they are purchasing Briggs and Riley.  Upon questioning, they confirm the salesman’s accolades.  Not only are the pieces sturdy but Briggs and Riley offer an unprecedented lifetime warranty that includes airline damage.  For $15 shipping, they repair or replace your bag, no questions asked, in about two to three weeks.   You don’t even have to register or have your original receipt.  Seems too good to be true.  I checked out their website  as soon as I got home and there it was in black and white:

"If your Briggs & Riley bag is ever broken or damaged, even if it was caused by an airline, we will repair it free of charge. Simple as that!"

The features that I liked, besides the unbelievable warranty, were the exterior  handle (leaving more room inside) and the magnetized luggage tag.   By now most of you know how I feel about the importance of luggage tags.

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So I am now the proud owner of a new 21"carry on upright Briggs and Riley Transcend bag.  Now I just need a reason to pack it.

Franklin Canyon, California

I went on a little hike this weekend in a jewel of a park.   Nestled between the famous Mulholland Drive and Beverly Hills, Franklin Canyon is an oasis in the midst of the second largest city in the United States.   With its criss cross of hiking trails, lakes, fountains and picnic areas it should be packed with city dwellers looking for respite  but instead is one of it’s best kept secrets.

We achieved a sweltering 89 degrees yesterday here in Los Angeles.   Too hot for an early April day and hopefully not a precursor for the long summer ahead.   Due to the heat, I wait until the sun begins its slow dip into the western horizon before heading out for my hike.

Now I know you are wondering, this is a travel blog, why are you writing about a hike?  Travel is a journey into new and exciting places.  Well,  I challenge you to change your thinking about travel.  Can’t
your voyage derive from exploring a familiar location in a new way?  Or changing  your perspective?

I find myself, with dusk fast approaching, walking down a familiar route but everything is different.  In the past I have been down this path in the morning, with friends.  Now, shadows are creeping down the mountainsides, the frogs are singing and the only thing keeping me company is the crunching of my shoes on the dirt.  And even though I know where I will end up,  I am in new territory with eyes wide open.

Take a new path down an old road.